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Matt's avatar
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Probably the most interesting book written about dying in the Western world is “Being Mortal” by Atul Gawande. It is a complex, subtle book. Part of its focus is on having the discussion with your loved ones about what “a life worth living is” before you need to make decisions on their behalf - recognizing that this conversation will be different for everyone.

I have had this discussion with relatives as they have granted me power of attorney in the event they are no longer able to make decisions. When the time comes, I will have those conversations about my end with my son. As a parent, it is my duty to make those decisions as clear and as simple as I can for him - because those decisions are hard and painful and clouded. BTW for me, I would not wish to live with dementia (my father had similar views).

With all that said, I understand concerns about the abuse of power. And assisted dying is not the primary way that states end the lives of their citizens (most often it is thru neglect and greed rather than an active choice).

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Robert C Culwell's avatar

Lord, have mercy....

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