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Marc Schleifer's avatar

Really great essay. I think where this dynamic really comes into play (at least in my case) is in the professional world. I have always been in awe of those people who always knew what they wanted to do and pursued it. A “calling.” Less about success in that chosen field, they always seem especially content because they are doing what they truly love. What if one doesn’t really know what one wants? It’s entirely possible to be productive, work hard, be professionally successful, be great at one’s job, and still never feel fulfilled. I think this is slightly different than the classic “paradox of choice”; it’s not about not being able to choose among all the options, but really about having no idea what you want to do.

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George Scialabba's avatar

What about maximicing: scanning the whole menu and choosing everything right away?

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