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My son needed fairytales, so I made him some fairytales, told them, and turned them into an illustrated storybook:

https://www.amazon.com/Book-CRAZY-MONSTER-STORIES/dp/1549983539/

Many of these stories are about very modern things - Pokemon, smartphones, media, celebrity (there's even a nod to terrorism, in the guise of a fable). The stories are simple, but so is the morality: Be true to yourself, look after your loved ones, be wary of greed and fads, stand up to bullies, don't walk alone into the dark forest.

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The problem with selecting a partner on the basis of wealth is that wealth, past a certain point, is not very useful to children. Obviously, I would prefer a child to be unloved rather than starve to death, but once you've taken care of the basic essentials, love is the primary thing that a child needs. Maybe Elon thinks he can buy love from others, but his children can never buy love from him.

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Thomas Moore, of "Care of the Soul" fame, seems to agree and wrote a book, "Re-Enchantment of Everyday Life." Most fairytales emerged before the current exponential expansion of technology, which is stripping our lives of magic and wonder. The suffocating pragmatism of science and technology has taken the child-like curiosity from the majority of us leaving it to a few professional artists and musicians.

"A culture dedicated to enchantment recognizes our need to live in a world of both facts and holy imagination. It doesn't explain everything away in materialistic terms but understands that wisdom and deep intelligence require an honest appreciation of mystery. It seeks out experiences that quiet our mental ambitions and open a pathway toward some kind of transcendental vision, experiences at swell the heart and stretch the limits of belief and understanding. Enchantment is both a dulling of the mind and a sharpening of perception."

https://www.amazon.com/Re-enchantment-Everyday-Life-Thomas-Moore/dp/0060928247

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I think I disagree that tech intrinsically disenchants. The '90s were very "enchanted" compared to today, for example.

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Yes, and the 60’s, 70’s were more enchanting than the 90’s. The trend is obvious. The increase in technology corresponds with a decrease in wonder and raw creativity leaving our souls to starve. https://johnhardman.substack.com/p/megatons-of-technology

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Love Anora as a fairy tale. It was also a bit of a porno, so I killed 2 birds with one stone that night.

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I think the fairly tale with an unobstructed moral is a fairly modern invention (18th / 19th / 20th century). Fairy tales prior to this often had complicated stories and ambiguous or contradictory takeaways.

If I were to distill your point it's that the absence of fairly tales in the modern cultural zeitgeist has led to an erosion of understanding for what's fundamentally vital. Surely then people living before the invention of the modern fairy tale would have lacked this moral compass.

Or perhaps something else took the place of the fairly tale? Religion perhaps?

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I thought gossip was how we conveyed morals, and fairy tales were how we conveyed warnings, and historically didn't have happy endings.

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I’ve been thinking on this, too. I’ve started repackaging my old Dating blog (true stories) to try and let people day dream and believe in fairytales again. Here’s the link: https://open.substack.com/pub/liveyourownfairytale/p/coming-soon?r=268b51&utm_medium=ios

Definitely a different tone than my political blog, but I feel it’s just as needed

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