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Matt's avatar

To the last few sentences. I think there are profound disagreements about what “the good life” is - or indeed, if it is a singular thing. One of the annoying things about both the post-liberal right and some progressives is that they assume everyone has (or should have) the same desires as them. That’s not how desire works. And while some might respond “this isn’t about desire, it’s about reason, our concepts of the good life should be based on reason”, that’s not how human beings work.

Unfortunately I think it’s inevitable that these things get pulled into the Schmittian, zero sum game of policing the friend-enemy distinction that seems to be modern American politics.

I think conservatives would very much like to own the concepts of children, family, and religion and progressives play into their hands if they let them to do so.

IMHO Progressive takes on children, family, and religion should critique social conservatives for being overly dogmatic and unimaginative about the forms that these institutions take and critique libertarians for general cluelessness (if not hostility) about how these institutions operate.

At their best progressive takes on children, family, and religion should be both more pragmatic and more darn fun than the conservatives ones.

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Taylor Dotson's avatar

I don't think *not* doing something as transformative to one's life as having kids can actually reveal your preferences about having kids. The idea only works when people have a reasonable chance of at least trying out different choices, and the trouble with having kids is that you can't really know how fulfilling (or miserable) your life would be without actually having your own children. All you've actually "revealed" is your relative satisfaction with your life as it is (or the scale of your fears about losing that satisfaction).

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